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How I Nearly Lost My Wife 
(And How I Got Her Back)

"YOU'RE MAKING A HUGE MISTAKE!"

When I got married, my wife and I were both 19.

I was in my second year of college. The only advice I’d ever received about marriage was from my friends:

“Evans, you’re making a huge mistake!”

I had no idea how to be a husband. Forget premarital counseling - I first met the pastor that married us on the morning of our wedding!

I grew up in a family where men were dominant and women were subservient. As might’ve guessed, that dynamic carried over into our marriage.

Within a few years we were on the brink of divorce.

One night I came home late from a long day of work and a game of golf. Karen asked me to stop playing so much and told me that I needed to spend time with her and our young daughter Julie.

I blew up.

I said “Get out of my house! Get out! I don’t care where you go but you can’t stay here!” 

Karen ran down the hall crying.

Now pause with me for just a second. 

I haven’t told you the craziest part yet: 

Karen and I were both Christians. 

We both had gone to church that very Sunday. We read our Bibles and had our own quiet time every single morning!
Jimmy Evans
Jimmy Evans is the Founder and CEO of MarriageToday, a ministry that is devoted to helping couples thrive in strong and fulfilling marriages and families. Jimmy and his wife, Karen, host MarriageToday, a nationally syndicated television program. He is also Senior Pastor of Gateway Church, a multi-campus church in the Dallas/Fort Worth Metroplex and has authored more than seventeen books including Marriage on the Rock, Strengths Based Marriage, and The Overcoming Life.
That particular morning, I happened to read John 16. 

Verse 13 stuck out to me like it hadn’t before, “When the Holy Spirit comes, he will guide you into all truth.”

When I told my wife to leave - I was beside myself. 

I was in shock. 

I didn’t want her to stay and I didn’t want her to go. I knew my marriage was over and I was going to lose Karen. I had no idea what to do.

At that moment, I remembered the verse I read that morning from John 16. I lowered my head and whispered “Holy Spirit, will you teach me how to be a husband? Because I don’t know how.”

Right then, deception fell off my eyes. I realized that I was deceived about myself and I was deceived about my wife. It was a supernatural experience. I found Karen and apologized to her and she apologized to me. It was a new beginning for us both. 

But we still had a long way to go.

The next morning God took me in the Bible to Genesis 2. At first, I didn’t understand why, but I kept reading it again and again.

What I discovered there saved our marriage, and countless other marriages since.

What People are Saying About The Four Laws of Love

Earlier I told you that Genesis 2 lays out the four laws of God’s design for marriage.

We’ve all read Genesis 2, so why haven’t we seen these 4 laws before?

The fact is, they’re all contained in a relatively short passage in that chapter - so it can be easy to miss if you’re not looking for it:

Therefore a man shall leave his father and mother and be joined to his wife, and they shall become one flesh. And they were both naked, the man and his wife, and were not ashamed. - Genesis 2:24-25, NKJV

All four laws come from these verses!

• The Law of Priority - Therefore a man shall leave his father and mother...
• The Law of Pursuit - ...and be joined to his wife
• The Law of Partnership - ...and they shall become one flesh
• The Law of Purity - ...And they were both naked, the man and his wife, and were not ashamed.

These are the building blocks God gave us for every marriage since the beginning of time. It’s so simple. It’s right there in our Bible. Yet we as Christians fail at it just as often as the rest of the world.

If you peered into the first three years of my marriage, the prognosis was pretty grim. But following these four laws has made the last 44 years of marriage not just a success, but the single most rewarding aspect of mine and Karen’s lives.

Maybe your marriage looks a lot like ours did.

Maybe you feel like you’re cruising on autopilot.

Maybe you’re longing to feel like newlyweds again.

Maybe you’re even pretty happy, and want to get even more out of your adventure together.

If your marriage is hurting, it can be healed. If your marriage is good, it can be great!

I’ve taught this exciting truth all over the world to millions of people and the results are the same every time.

When people understand and apply the laws of love to their marriage relationships, they are transformed. It’s how God always intended for it to work!

Chaos becomes order.

Pain becomes pleasure.

Hopelessness becomes passion.

Now, before you dive in, I've got some good news for you.

Normally, The Four Laws of Love retails for $27.99. 

But when we put it up for preorder, we wanted to get it into as many hands as possible. So we listed it for $27.99 $17.99.

It’s back up to $27.99 now on our regular store. But because you’re on this page, you can get it for the preorder-only price of $27.99 $17.99! 

I hope you’ll join me and millions of others in applying these four laws to your marriage today, and watch what’s possible when we follow God’s perfect design.

Here's Just Some of What's Inside

  • Why “the honeymoon period” is a dangerous misconception - (Page 28)
  • ​The rule that revolutionized bedtime in our household with young kids - (Page 50)
  • ​The leading cause of divorce we see in our counseling ministry - (Page 59)
  • ​The twelve phases of romantic love that everyone (man and woman!) needs to know - (Page 72)
  • ​Why “chemistry” isn’t all it’s cracked up to be - (Page 77)
  • ​How to begin fixing your marriage when you’re “out of love” - (Page 85)
  • ​A Bible verse that Christians tend to dislike - hint: it’s one of the most important - (Page 87)
  • ​What Chick-fil-a can teach us about servanthood - (Page 107)
  • ​My day as a blind man - (Page 118)
  • ​A prayer for breaking iniquity in your family - (Page 147)
  • ​The major building block of western civilization that was never part of God’s design for us - (Page 151)
  • ​What “headship” actually means for Christ-followers - (Page 152)
  • ​The myth of “growing apart” - (Page 156)
  • ​Discovering “financial intimacy” - (Page 166)
  • ​Seven Steps to Purity in Marriage - (Page 184)
  • ​Preventing unforgiveness from poisoning your marriage - (Page 188)
  • ​The Four Levels of Intimacy - (Page 212)
  • ​Why PDA is good for a marriage - (Page 217)
  • ​Seven Steps to Sexual Pleasure and Intimacy - (Page 228)
Listen, I'm so confident this book will bring new life to your marriage, that after 30 days of implementing what's in this book, you’re either THRILLED with the results or simply return the book and we will get your money right back to you!

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